Integrative Attachment Family Therapy: Level 1

Foundations of Integrative Attachment Family Therapy

Learn the evidence-based framework for helping families build secure attachment, co-regulation, and lasting connection.


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What is IAFT Level 1?

The Integrative Attachment Family Therapy (IAFT) Training Course, developed by family therapy expert and attachment specialist Dafna Lender, is a powerful intervention approach that addresses a wide array of issues that make their way to a therapist's office: difficult behaviors on the part of the child, such as frequent arguments and tantrums, disobedience, and indifference; and reactive behaviors on the part of the parents, such as yelling, pleading, threatening, and giving up or giving in.

Instead of viewing the child as the problem, IAFT addresses the crux of the issue: a misalignment in the parent-child relationship. In this training course, Dafna walks students through the IAFT framework, providing therapeutic insight and concrete strategies to help families achieve meaningful and lasting change.

Whether you're a clinician, child welfare worker, educator, or professional working with children in any capacity, this must-have resource will allow you to create a strong alliance with parents, overcome complex defenses, uncover emotional misalignment, and truly help families transform into happy and well-functioning environments where children can thrive.


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Building the Foundation

Level 1 introduces the core framework of Integrative Attachment Family Therapy (IAFT) and provides practical tools you can begin using immediately in your work.

This training is designed for professionals who:

  • Feel stuck in recurring patterns with the people they support
  • Want to move beyond insight and behavior strategies
  • Are looking for tools to respond more effectively in real time
  • Want to better understand and work with the parent–child relationship

You’ll leave with a clearer understanding of relational dynamics and a strong foundation for applying IAFT in real-world settings.

The skills

After Level 1, you will be able to:

  • Recognize relational patterns as they are unfolding
  • Work more directly with both child and caregiver
  • Respond to dysregulation in real time
  • Support safety, co-regulation, and connection
  • Begin applying IAFT tools in your sessions and interactions
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What's Covered in Level 1

Module 1: Foundations of Attachment Family Therapy

In Module 1, we will practice exercises for maximizing your social engagement system and participate in experiential exercise for learning about your own polyvagal map.

In this session, you will:

  • Learn techniques for transmitting trust and safety through body language
  • Learn how to overcome your defensive reactions to clients who cause you discomfort by using guided imagery and self-regulation techniques
  • See video of real client where parent and child have difficulty due to being mismatched in their nervous systems and how social engagement activities helped them become more attached and regulated
  • Map out your own polyvagal map so you can become familiar with your own nervous system
  • Learn to apply this same map with your clients

Module 2: Attachment-Based Activities for Attunement, Trust, and Regulation

Module 3: Facilitating Parent-Child Dialogues that Create Connection and Understanding

Module 4: What Lies Underneath Difficult Child Behaviors & Working with Parents

Continuing Education

Earn Up to 6 CE Credits

IAFT Level 1 offers up to 6 live continuing education credit hours for licensed clinicians. An optional CE certificate is available for a $30 fee.

Dafna Lender’s framework, integrative attachment family therapy (IAFT), uses the power of neuroplasticity to provide parents and children with new experiences of safety and connection that shift trauma-informed relationships. It offers a powerful mental health intervention that can help families to heal. If parents and therapists follow Dafna’s guidance, they can make significant progress in reducing attachment trauma in future generations.

Bessel van der Kolk, MD.
#1 New York Times best-selling author of The Body Keeps the Score

Dafna Lender presents an integrated therapeutic approach, IAFT, as an accessible, intuitive, optimistic, and compassionate strategy to strengthen the parent-child relationship. The product of this integration is a transformative therapeutic strategy that leverages the importance of both child and parent feeling safe enough to trust each other. Through clinical examples, we observe how this new felt sense of safety enables both the parent and child to become more accurate and respectful witnesses, a process that evolves into the parent-child co-regulation becoming more symmetrical and imbued with the resilience necessary to process potentially disruptive challenges that may confront either the child or the parent.

Stephen Porges, PhD
Author of The Polyvagal Theory and Clinical Applications of the Polyvagal Theory

Integrative Attachment Family Therapy is a child-focused, multidimensional framework on the vanguard of treatments that heal and strengthen attachment issues in the parent-child relationship. With clear, accessible language and illustrative case examples, Dafna Lender shows how activities based on somatic practices can intervene in problem behaviors in children and in parents. The result is a comprehensive book that will benefit all mental health care professionals who strive to alleviate children’s pain and reconstruct family functioning.

Peter A. Levine, PhD
Best-selling author of Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma and Trauma Through a Child’s Eyes: Awakening the Ordinary Miracle of Healing

This book should be required reading for anyone who works with children. As experienced therapists know, no one clinical model is comprehensive enough to work for everyone. However, Dafna Lender’s integrative attachment family therapy comes darn close. I am hard pressed to think of parents and children who would not be helped by her elegant approach. Through her gift of storytelling, complex ideas come alive in ways that are both poetic and practical. I can’t recommend this illuminating book highly enough!

Karen Doyle Buckwalter, LCSW, RPT-S
Author & Podcaster
Meet Your Trainer

Dafna Lender, LCSW

Dafna is a child and family therapist with more than 20 years of experience. She is a certified trainer, supervisor, and consultant in Theraplay® and Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, and coauthor of Theraplay: The Practitioner's Guide. Dafna has successfully treated children and their parents across a wide range of backgrounds and provides trainings and consultations for psychologists and psychotherapists around the world.

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Your IAFT Training Path

IAFT Level 1 Upcoming Trainings

Tuition & What's Included

  • Tuition: $225 (optional CE certificate fee of $30)
  • 3 live sessions, 2 hours each, on Zoom
  • Session recordings (so you never miss content)
  • Handouts, worksheets, and resources
  • Certificate of completion
  • Up to 6 live CE credit hours

"When I stumbled upon your book on Amazon, it felt like I had found a missing piece to a puzzle. This approach affirms my hunches and instincts about where to go with families and provides a framework for doing so. My colleagues have expressed similar feedback. We sincerely appreciate your work. It has helped to confirm, consolidate, and inspire our team."

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Frequently Asked Questions

Who is IAFT Level 1 for?

Therapists, counselors, social workers, educators, child welfare professionals, and other professionals who support children, parents, and families and want practical, attachment-based tools they can use in real time.

Do I need prior attachment training?

Are CE credits offered?

What if I miss a live session?

Do I receive a certificate?

Where should I start?

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